STYLE
This is the first time after 5 years a go when I write article. The things that I come back to write is for sharing mindset and my personal experience about style. there a one quotes which is make me understand how style is important until finally I am totally remodel my style, the quotes reads
“Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak.” —Rachel Zoe
After reading and trying to interpret the words finally I am looking to the mirror and look my self,evidently when I see my style in a past, I realized that something wrong with my style. without speak, I had seem "speaking" I am bad, start from my untidy hair, pants that slumped indistinctly, and clothes that ahhhh never mind....
look at this style
old people with style
what comes to your mind after seeing this ? I guess, "cool" it is a definition from style which is every person will seeing you like a good person without show with act or words.
this is me when I just started college in university
this is me after graduate thesis
you can see the defferent ? which one this better ?
Style Is shape appreciation to your self
For me, the current style is a shape love yourself. If the other people not respect to you, don't rush to hate it, try to look at to the mirror and see your self, are you has been able to respect your self ? if not, then do it by your self before, the more you can appriciate your self and love your self, then the more people will respecting to you. So now please try to see your self, are you has been respecting you self or not ?
Ages 20 and over is both a fun and painful age
When you started 20 years old, you already start feeling freedom, can play with your friends without any time limit, trying any new things, find experience, find identity, but in the same times, the futures comes in front of your eyes start thinking about the next step in your life, thinking about your soul mate, future, work, home, dreams. Then what is the relationship with style? for a style writer can support you to more easily mingle and be accepted by other people or circles, making other people see you as more valuable and attractive, so that it will make your connection easier in the future. If your own style is in shambles, then you can be sure you fail and will fall into a dark cirle that has no hope of progressing and is stuck, which in turn will make you more insecure about all around you.
No Need Expensive Fashion
Some people hate fashion because they say it's useless to look good looking or rich even though they are actually poor, or I want fashion too but I don't have much money.
Well, this is a question that many of my own. First, is it wrong for poor people to look good and rich? or do they have to look poor because they are poor? please answer yourself. Second, to have a GOOD LOOKING fashion, you don't have to wear expensive and branded clothes, just with basic items you can look GOOD & RICH.
- Black / white plain t-shirts <30,000
- black jeans <100,000
- white shirt <50,000
- oxford / canvas / chelsea shoes <300.000
- Watches <100,000
- Perfume <100,000
The things above are basic items that you can have cheaply and are sold everywhere, no need to buy everything, just buy a little at a time, the most important thing is not to force yourself to something expensive, but push yourself to be something expensive.
CLOSING
Fashion today is a demand for everyone, but all of it is your choice, whether you want to respect yourself or you just care about everything other than yourself like a money woman. If you want to be respected by others, then start respecting yourself.
TEDI KURNIA/WRITER
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